Sunday, May 11, 2008

Back from the Dead

No, I did not die!!! Maybe after Joe's post, you can start to appreciate that this, in and of itself, is something to be quite pleased about. I am still here and while the bright light hurt my eyes at first it does feel good to be out of my cave. I had my last final on Thursday, turned in my big paper late Friday night, and then . . . . basically collapsed. It feels so weird to be thinking and doing anything besides school! It's so great. Basically, my mind has already started to repress the memory of what these last few weeks have been like. That is my 'coping mechanism,' and it's what keeps me going back for more! I am actually really good at remembering the good and partly blocking out the bad. Yes, I will always remember that I worked harder in law school than I thought it was possible to do. But when I look back, instead of focusing on all the stress-filled sleepless nights, I will mostly think of how much I learned, the great classes I got to take, and the great professors I had. (Not all of my classes and professors have been amazing, but I will remember the amazing ones!) It really fun to think about how much I have accomplished. I can definitely say that law school has not been a waste of my time because I have been pushed to my limit and learned a lot along the way. Anyway, thank you everyone for all your support! It means a lot to know I have family and friends who care so much about how I'm doing! I couldn't have made it without you.

So . . . tomorrow morning I will start my job as a summer associate at DLA Piper! That feels pretty crazy because I have been so overwhelmed with school I haven't even had a chance to think about work yet! But I am definitely looking forward to the change of pace. Being a summer associate presents a different kind of stress, but it is also fun. I'll fill you in more on that once I actually get started.

Anyway . . . I just wanted to make this post and prove that I had come back to life. Yesterday we just took the day to have fun. We went to lunch, went shopping (I had to buy some black heels for work since last summer I wore down my heels way past repair). Lori and I also had to find something to wear for the wedding (Joe's sister Franchesca) next weekend (we happened to find matching black dresses - won't we be cute!). The next part of the celebration day was this:

FUNNEL CAKE. If any of you have been driving by the little ice cream place on Liberty Road on the way to Eldersburg and wondering about it, well THIS is what you are missing out on! The funnel cake ice cream sundae. It is huge and it is sugary but it is a fun treat to share. Joe and I got vanilla ice cream with cookie dough and hot fudge. It was worth every bite! I hadn't eaten sweets for a couple months so this was quite the way to jump back in.
Joe is happy to have me back! He is a trooper and we are looking forward to a fun summer.
Joe also had tons of fun playing with our friend little Avary. Aren't they adorable? Avary is so cute and so happy, and we love her!
Learning to walk! Almost there, Avary!

Well, it is good to be back, people!! Happy Mother's Day, Mom!!

Sunday, May 4, 2008

She Can't Cause She's Studying!

The blog has been neglected of late and apparently it's all my fault. I continue to state that this isn't my blog and that I have NO responsibility to post; however, that only gets Lindsey to force me to take the 5th by further examining me about what exactly my responsibilities are. Lindsey's studying to be a lawyer and man is she good! And man is she studying!

December and May are finals months. Anybody who hasn't been to law school really can't comprehend what a law final is like so I've decided to dedicate a post to her crazy life. Obviously this is from my observation from the outside but here it goes.

Law school consists of a lot of reading and writing. Lots. Here is a stack of her books...for one semester. These babies average about 1400 pages and NO PICTURES. They have these weird symbols in them that mean something like act or statute and a bunch of latin terms as if English wasn't hard enough. And unlike dental school, law students are required to read almost all of the book so something like 1400 X 5 = 7000 pages a semester! Notice the box of tissues to the left, she goes through at least 7 boxes of those a semester as well.

So she reads all of the books, highlights them and tabs them. Then in the computer she types out notes about the readings. She then attends lectures prepared to be called on like in the movies and takes a bunch more notes about what her law professors say. I imagine many of them are lies, but she'll deny that (of course!) Blue highlighter means something, yellow something else as well as pink. No scented ink with this girl.
So then getting ready for finals really starts about 6 weeks before the exams actually take place. Before that she studies most of the time, but once that 6 week panic starts she studies all of the time. She gets invited to baby showers, enrichment, dates with me, birthday parties, to hang out with friends friday and saturday evenings, and more dates with me, but can't go to any of them. Instead she sits in this very spot and takes all of the readings and lecture notes and organizes them into outlines. The first draft of these outlines range from 60 to 80 pages long, but after they are finished she'll condense them to a more practical 40 to 60 pages. And then study them and tab them.
So what to I do while she's doing this? Well I can't say that I'm super productive, but I seem to know most of what's going on in the sports world and I know what I can get a luxury car for on ebay. But for the impressive part, I do all of the grocery shopping for weeks straight. I try to buy fruits and foods that will keep the girl happy. I usually wash more of the laundry and then get around to folding it once it's piled up. It's a good thing she's upstairs in the office because I usually don't keep the house as clean as she would.

Then about two weeks after the point she's about to shoot herself the big weeks come where she has 3-4 hour finals for each class. Something like, Friday, Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. All of the grade comes down to this period of intense typing. She takes a test, comes out mentally exhausted and comes home and starts studying for the next one. I'm lucky if I get 10 minutes of holding her on the couch. I live for those ten minutes. I also live for not saying the wrong thing or should I say I die if I do. I've gotten good.

So many of her friends might feel a little neglected when Lindsey gets into finals mode. She really loves all of you and wishes it were different, but for her this is her dream and she doesn't know how to do it any other way. So thanks for the support. A special thanks to several people who have gone out of their ways to make her day (and mine.) In about a week it will be all over for now. According to her, next year will be different. We'll wait and see cause you really can't tell whether a lawyer is being truthful or not. Right?

I'm really proud of her, and love her.

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Family Dental Service, Inc.

Yes, that's me, on the couch. Yes, that's Lori with a mask, glasses, and sharp instruments. And yes, that's Joe standing by with a flashlight to assist. I like to call it "Family Dental, Inc."

These pictures are actually from a month or so ago (luckily it is close enough to spring that we're not buddled up in bulkly sweatshirts anymore). Anyway, one night I freaked out because I saw calculus on my back molar. I had never noticed having calculus before - maybe because I used to go to the dentist regularly - and I was terrified of it. So the next Sunday when Lori came over, I slipped my frightening experience into the conversation (not hard - I'm outnumbered 3:1 when it comes to dental people so the conversation often heads in that direction). Immediately, we whipped out Joe's instruments, and Joe and Nate prepared to learn from the best.
Lori really knows what she's doing. She had all the calculus scraped off in no time - whew! She said my mouth was one of the best she's seen since starting work here in Maryland - apparently some people don't freak out when they see calculus taking over their mouth! It was so fun(ny) to watch Joe and Nate analyze and try to soak in what she was doing. (They may do a lot of fillings and crowns, but apparently the hygienists at the school don't know what's up.) Thanks, Lori, what would I do without you??? (Neither Joe nor I are ready to have him work on my mouth just yet .... not that he doesn't do a good job, but because we tried it once at home and I starting whining when he "hurt my cheek.")

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Little Bro is 22!! (Guess I'm getting old!)

It just didn't seem right closing out April Fool's Day w/o a b-day shout-out to my brother!! Yes, my brother was born on April Fool's Day. I'm not sure why, but for some reason it seems to fit! I don't think he knows I have a blog ... but this will be a good reason to tell him!
Yes, Dave ... aren't we cute. My brother David is 2.5 years younger than me and we had LOTS of fun together when we were little. I especially remember: playing 'lava,' playing with Sara the trike and Michael the bigwheel, Saturday morning cartoons, hours and hours playing in the 'sub-basement,' and much more. It was always good to have a sibling so you could sleep in their room when you got scared (yes, I think I was scared of the dark).
Yes, it looks like we even held hands once! Bet this picture is priceless. Anyway, I'm glad I have a brother that was nice enough to put up with me over the years! I think I cramped his style a little in high school since he had to be connected to his 'nerdy' older sister (I'm sorry, I just study a lot!). He was always a great athlete and really got into music during high school. Now he is a great guitar player! He has great taste in music and clothes and I hope in other things as well (like girls! haha). He is a great guy and I am so sad not to get to spend any time with him these days.
Hope you had a good birthday, Dave! And I hope you know we love you!

Sunday, March 30, 2008

If I Were a Billionaire?

Lindsey finally gets her wish: I'm posting. I've noticed a "tag" going around the blog community with a question which has been sorely misunderstood. The question, "What would you do if you were a billionaire." Now I'm sure many responders don't want to be taken as materialistic, but the question wasn't what you would do if you were a millionaire. Try 1000 times that. Ya, $1,000,000,000. The yearly interest alone on a billion dollars is a very conservative $50 million. That's a lot of money. So here is what I would do if I was a billionaire. If you want to think that I'm materialistic you don't have to be friends with me, although I'm sure my friends would really like me. First of all, I would finish dental school. I might never practice dentistry, but I would finish. It's not only so Lindsey can call me doctor, which she has agreed to for two months, but mainly since I value education and don't like ignorance. In fact I would also go to business school after that. I could go on about investments, and the "nice things" I could do with all that money, which I would definitely do, but here is a few more fun things I would do. Gosh, I hope I never have this much money though because I'd rather go to heaven.
My House $26 Million
Paradise Valley, AZ
It looks like there is enough room there to do anything I wanted. Is that a golf course? Come hangout whenever you want.
Summer House $1.2 Million
Montana
I've always had a dream of living on a lake. This house literally sits on a lake with the private boat dock right behind where the picture was taken. I'd post the picture but Lindsey gave me a picture limit for this post.
Kind of a Third House
Lake Powell Houseboat $500,000
I've been fortunate enough to spend several weeks on a houseboat at Lake Powell. If you haven't been there it's a great time to spend with family and friends. This boat seems amazing but some of the best times I had was with friends on "The Rainbow Connection" which went down the lake tilted because one of the pontoons had a leak in it and was full of water. Amazing memories and can't wait to make more!
Forms of Travel:
Jet $3 million
I decided it would be nice to have an airplane to not have to put up with all the frustrations of airline travel. I guess I could have this one if I was a billionaire. Fuel on this probably cost more than $1000 an hour. Looks like it holds 14 people so some of you can come.
Porsche 911 Turbo $9o,000
I've loved this car since I was five years old. My dad took me to the store and he bought me a picture of a red porsche for my room. Funny thing is that he also bought himself a huge 50 gallon plastic trash can for the yard, but I thought this was for me as well. So he was nice enough to go along with my innocence and let me have it in my room for a few days. So yeah, I didn't have to empty the trash very often.
GMC Kodiak 4500 $60,000
This is actually my dream truck and maybe just maybe it's a little big. It could be the little guy sydrome I was born with but I really hope to have a reason to own this truck some day. How will Lindsey get in? Not my problem!
Mastercraft X-star $90,000
When I was 14 my dad bought a 1978 boat for $3,000. It was a fixer upper for sure and our family put so much time into getting that boat into tip top condition. We all had a blast going to the lake and learning to ski. It was a good experience but I think I'm going big baby! It seats 12 people.
Just One More Boat
Yacht $3 million
So maybe you can tell that I love boats and water. I'm not sure why, but water just calls to me. Water does to me, what chocolate does to women. I think it would be amazing to be able to go from city port to city port on a yacht and dock for a day or so to see what the city has to offer and then continue up the coast. There's lots of room for friends and family so free up a week or so and we'll go.
And since I've only spent about $35 million so far, for the rest I would become the majority owner of the Arizona Cardinals NFL Team for $400 million and turn them into winners instead of losers and then build several high rises in the Phoenix, Los Angeles area and lease them out. I might throw in a golf course or two as well, and maybe a resort. It would be fun. Golf would be free for friends.

It looks like it would be fun to have $1 billion. Materialistic? Nah! For those that actually know me know that the thing I want to do the most in life is to help others out that are really in need and make a significant difference in their life. I see so many kids every day that were born into a hopeless situation and it really tears me apart. It really isn't fair. Someday I hope to make a big difference and not only in their smile, but also in their reasons to smile. It's something I want my future children to experience as well. But maybe we can have a little fun along the way, right?

Ever heard of SNUS?

If not, you will soon enough. But let me be the first to introduce you. Snus is a smokeless tobacco product that is new to the U.S. The two biggest cigarette makers - Philip Morris and R.J. Reynolds - began test-marketing it here in 2006. Snus is the Swedish form of smokeless tobacco and has been manufactured there for over a century. It is different from regular American smokeless tobacco because it is SPITLESS and comes in small, flavored pouches that users place behind their upper lip while the product delivers nicotine to their body. It is also manufactured differently which leads to some interesting consequences.

One of those consequences is that using snus is MUCH SAFER than smoking but it is still NOT SAFE. However, many people in the tobacco control community (called reduced-harm proponents) argue that the tobacco control community should actually PROMOTE the use of snus as a safer alternative to smoking.

So why am I talking about snus? Well it just so happens that last semester I took a Tobacco Control Seminar and ended up writing a 43 page paper talking about how the public health community should respond now that snus is being introduced in the U.S. It's going to be published in the law school's Journal of Heath Care Law & Policy in May! My article argues against the "harm-reduction" strategy of promoting snus use to those who can't quit smoking and those who otherwise may begin to smoke. Why? Because to do so would be to play right into the tobacco industry's hands.

It is difficult to give you a brief taste of what I say in 43 pages, but I do want you to know that this stuff is dangerous! I especially can't get into the science of the uncertain health effects of American vs. Swedish snus, snus vs. other forms of smokless tobacco, etc. But let me give you just a few reasons why any health professional promoting snus is a bad idea.

1. One of the reasons the tobacco control community has had success in reducing smoking rates is through labelling smoking as an "aberrant social behavior," because of smell, spitting, etc. Snus, however, isn't susceptible to those defects - no smell, no spitting, and it can be used discreetly. While most middle class youth are no longer interested in cigarettes, "snusing" could easily become the new thing - all we need to do is look to Sweden to see how that may happen.

2. Snus can only be a "reduced-harm" product if current smokers who wouldn't quit actually switch to using snus. This is unlikely because snus doesn't provide a good substitute for cigarettes in terms of nicotine delivery (getting that "fix"). What is likely to happen is that smokers will use snus when they can't smoke. This will undermine the beneficial effect of clean-air laws of encouraging smokers to quit. This, in fact, is precisely how snus is being marketed: to current smokers, for "pleasure for wherever." If all snus does is help smokers sustain their nicotine addiction, and encourage new users to start using tobacco, there can be no public health benefit.

3. It is unclear what advantages snus would provide as a replacement for cigarettes over nicotine replacement therapy (NRT) which unlike snus has been deemed "safe" for long-term use. Currently, NRT is expensive and formulated for short-term use in quitting. But surely the tobacco control industry should focus on developing and promoting forms of NRT that are effective and attractive to consumers before it helps the tobacco industry promote its latest product.

I hope that gives you just a taste of what we are up against. In my article, I argue that the U.S. should ban the sale of snus (as has been done in the European Union and Australia). Since this is unlikely to happen, I argue that congress must pass the bill currently before it which would give the FDA authority to regulate tobacco. As it stands, a major federal agency charged with protecting the public health still lacks authority to regulate a product that is one of the leading causes of death among Americans. I also discuss other actions states can independently take to counteract the negative consequences of snus marketing by Big Tobacco. At a minimum, the public health community should not team up with Big Tobacco by promoting snus. Tobacco manufacturers have brought snus to the U.S. to respond to falling profits and declining cigarette consumption - they hope to widen their consumer base and increase their bottom line, and so far it seems that it may be working. The public health community must take another approach, before snus creates a new tobacco crisis in the U.S.

Anyway, thanks for listening to me talk about snus. It was fun to write a law school paper that is actually on something I care about - tobacco control - although I hadn't ever heard of snus either until I took the class. And I figured since I wrote all about it I might as well blog a little bit about it, too. :) I am interested to see if any of you have heard of it! (By the way, it is coming to Baltimore ...)

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Another Fabulous "Tag"

I am so flattered Kirsten thinks I am up to doing all these tags! I will at least get to this first one and we'll see about the other one at a later date. This one is fun because it must be answered with pictures! (Oh and I shortened it a little because it was taking too long.)

Favorite Color:
Blue! Went to the Natural History Museum last week and fell in love with all the blue stones and gems. I totally want this 2.64 carat topaz for a right hand ring ... way cheaper than another diamond!

Favorite Animal:
Frogs, of course. It was hard to pick just one picture because they are so cute.

Favorite Dessert:
I found a picture of two of my favorite desserts! Vanilla, not chocolate, cupcakes. And definitely double stuff for the oreos.

Favorite Hobby:
Ballroom dancing! I started dancing in 8th grade and don't do it any more, but I still LOVE it. These happen to be two of my favorite competitors from last season's So You Think You Can Dance - my favorite (only) show in the whole world!

My Job:
I was going to put a picture of a lawyer but at the moment I think the books are more appropriate - I have not passed the bar yet. Studying is my job right now.

Me:
At the Lincoln Memorial last week.

Now I tag: two of my sisters-in-law, Lori and Liz. Also Hannah and Kristen, and anyone else who wants to do the tag - it's kind of fun. It's okay if you don't get to it right away (I know I just sent around a tag like a week ago).

Monday, March 24, 2008

Happy birthday little sis!!

I am so excited to be making this post! 16 years ago today was a great day - my favorite sister was born!! She was born at exactly 3:13 in the afternoon while I was at gymnastics. I was 8. Katherine Claire (I helped pick her middle name - Claire is my favorite name!) was a miracle baby and certainly the answer to many of my little-girl prayers. I wanted a sister so bad and now I could NOT imagine life without her! Katie has always been so much fun, and a great sport about everything! I must have thought it was so funny putting her in my tennis shoes ...
Katie was a crazy and hilarious little girl. She loved to be outside daydreaming and had an imaginary boyfriend named Charlie. And boy did she have curls!! To this day, she still has beautiful curls, is a great artist, and has such a fun personality. I know she is my "little sister" but I will always look up to her in so many ways! She is sweet, outgoing, kind, and always tries to do the right thing. Being a teenage girl is a lot of fun, but it can also be pretty hard, and Kate is doing great. It is really hard for me to be all the way across the country and miss a lot of these wonderful years. The times when we get to visit each other are priceless!

Another thing about Kate ... she has always been super creative! Over the years she has made me several adorable "best of sister" books which I treasure and look at quite often! Here are a couple of pages that are pretty cute:
Yes - we like to eat snow!! We also love to dance together, laugh together, and just be silly. Sisters are the best!! Katie does not like to shop quite as much as me yet but obviously that is not a bad thing. She loves to sing and is also a great skier and a great climber. Someday she will have to teach me all she knows about climbing and we can do lots of fun climbs together!Happy sweet sixteen, Katesy!! When I moved away you were just 13 and you have grown up so fast! I am so lucky to have you for my sister! Miss you. :)